Stop being that girl/guy that lusts after things and people that are not for you.
You deserve the lust/ love you keep trying to give everyone else
Make rules for yourself and write it down for reference when needed.
First on your list should be
– I am special and will treat myself as such
– No one is allowed to waste my time, absolutely no one
– I am enough, for the right one
– Patience and self-discipline are vital
– Change is necessary, do not be afraid to start afresh and try new things
– Love also takes time and cordial effort.
Ps: you may share some of your additions to this list in the comment section.