Everyone comes into your life with an agenda.
An agenda you never wonder about until they leave because you get so caught up in the momentary laughs, comfort, mystery, entertainment, reliability etc.
It’s all fun and games at first, it always is
Maybe because it’s refreshing
Or exciting
Or maybe, just maybe it feels comforting.
Comforting that someone shows interest for reasons you can’t be bothered about just yet.
Until things start to fall apart and out of place.
They change, switch up, or act different.
It becomes confusing if not frustrating
You get scared to let go, to accept this sudden change.
To go back to being without
No reliability or idea of what will be
Until it’s all over and you get some time to ponder, evaluate and realize
It takes some time to make sense of it all.
Every stage/step to comprehending, accepting and letting go is crucial. Don’t try to skip thru it.
My advice is to trust and learn from the process, everything works out for the best — in the end.
Collective Creative 